Needs at Home and Abroad

Fear. It's paralyzing. I have heard the common fear that people don't want to give a handout to a homeless person because he/she might misuse the money. We don't want to hold the door open or give our seat to an older person or an expectant mother because we don't want to insult them. We don't want to give to charities because they might misappropriate the funds. So much anxiety about doing the right thing!

I can understand these fears. But it's time we get over them. People aren't used to kindness from strangers. If you offer your seat, they can accept graciously or say no. Either way, you have sent a message that you care, and you have made the world a better place.

We need to control where our charitable contributions are spent. It's true that we need to be good stewards of the gifts we have been given. So trust but verify (one of my favorite Reagan quotes!) Go to CharityNavigator and check their record. But then give graciously and trust the organization to do the right thing.

When encountering a homeless person on the street, we all get images of people who have been duped. The more healthy response is thinking of Mother Teresa and her philosophy that she sees the suffering Christ in each of these people. Would you trade places with them? There has to be something pretty powerful that keeps them in such a detached state in our society that provides so many services to those in need. Love them. My son taught me a powerful lesson. He sees the same homeless man every time he goes to the local CVS. On his way in to the CVS, he asks him what he needs that day, and then brings him toothpaste, lotion, snacks... whatever he needs. He gives him dignity, control, and respect.

This week's news feed has jolted me. These life-shattering historic floods in Baton Rouge were upstaged by an Olympic swimmer having a drinking binge and lying to the police. The human interest in these two stories is nowhere comparable. There are amazing stories about heroes in the devastating floods, and communities coming together to help each other. I have finally figured out that when I click on a negative story, my news feed blows up with more negativity. Lesson learned -- no more clicking on those articles! Always look for the good!

Now that you are thinking about it, check out where you can help. Find the charity that touches your heart. There are good organizations that always rise to the occasion. Consider giving to them without any strings -- just let them do what they do best. Or find a cataclysmic event that you could help with and contribute to the cause -- like communities devastated by the Louisiana floods or the California wildfires. Send your money, contribute your time and services, and remember to pray for the victims and the advocates who continue to fight for those in need. God bless them!

Blessings,
Barb